“Parents must not destroy the potential of children” – what I can say to the person who wants to study abroad

Children are not the property of their parents

Children are not the property of their parents, nor are they tools to make their parents look cool or mount them, but it’s like someone who doesn’t know that will appear on TV and tie up their lives. I get angry at making a statement.

For example, just because a child enters the University of Harvard does not mean that parents will become smarter.

Even if you send your child to study abroad, the only disadvantage should be financial problems.

About the dilemma “I want to study abroad but I like my country”

On the TV, he said, “I don’t like it because I like Japan,” in response to the comment “I wouldn’t be lonely if I moved to education with my parents.”

Of course, it’s great that I like Japan, and I’m not going to deny it.

However, the idea that “I like Japan so I don’t want to go abroad” is nothing more than tunnel vision from my point of view.

By going abroad, you can understand the goodness of overseas and the goodness of Japan, so there is a possibility that you will like Japan more, and when you go abroad, you may think that “overseas is a wonderful place”.

If you like Japan, it’s also interesting to go abroad and see how well “the goodness of Japan” works or not. It makes me happy when Japanese is used in unexpected places. Because you are far away, you may miss your hometown, or you may see something that you cannot see in your hometown. This is the real pleasure of studying abroad.

By studying abroad, you can have a wonderful experience that you can never experience in Japan. So if you think “I don’t fit in this country”, you can come back at that point. In fact, many people have realized the goodness of Japan after studying abroad or immigrating, and on the contrary, many people recognize that “Japan is hell.”

At least that dilemma cannot be imposed on a child’s life.

Parents are everything for children

For children, when parents say “sugar” to the white liquid in front of them, it becomes sugar, and when they say “salt”, it becomes salt. When parents say “white”, it means white, and when they say “black”, it means black. For children, the world that parents can see is everything, and as the years go by, various elements are added, but especially for small children, parents are the center of the world.

A 5-year-old child who was not fed by his parents will die, but even if he is not fed by his parents, he can cook for himself at the age of 15 and may live alone at the age of 20. not.

However, when parents say “don’t study abroad”, the possibility of life of “studying abroad” is excluded from their children. When parents say “don’t play with this child”, it’s the same as “playing with that child” disappears from the child.

Even if a child is abused by a parent or misunderstood by the parent, the smaller the child, the more incapable of escaping the bondage and curse of the parent.

At the very least, you miss the precious opportunity of studying abroad in high school. There is no age limit for studying abroad, but working holiday visa does. If you lose it just because you are a parent, it will irreparably entangle your parent-child relationship.

You can change your life without studying abroad. but…

For those who want to change their lives, we recommend that you visit overseas, whether you are studying abroad, getting married, or working holiday. It can be a trip, but it’s best to be able to see it as if you were a “national person” for as long as possible.

Of course, you can change your life without studying abroad. However, studying abroad is the easiest way to change your life.

Studying abroad is not so difficult to get a visa as long as you accept it at the school of your choice. It’s obvious when compared to a work visa. If you have a work visa, you have to find a job first and there are complicated procedures …

Seeing things from a “world” perspective from a young age will help children in the future. If you can study abroad at an early stage, it will be useful as a returnee in your future life, and there is only merit in studying abroad, especially in early study abroad.