First of all, I don’t say that we must not commit suicide
That’s because it’s nonsense and explaining it, might hurt the feeling who wants to die right now. It’s like a urge that we can’t ignore. It’s so overwhelming and we just need to TALK: Tell, Ask, Listen and Keep safe.
Suicide itself is painful, but self-immolation is the most suffering one
In order to die, we must stop our hearts. (It’s not a medical explanation, sorry) So it must be suffering.
But self-immolation, burning oneself with fire, is the most painful one. That’s because we have some per cents that we can’t die but we must suffer a whole life remaining. Our bodies are not the same, never, and we must have so many surgery. Although we have “risks” to die after days / weeks or even months later.
The person I know died after 31 days, she said to us that she doesn’t want to die, but last a few days we can’t even talk and nevertheless she left this world. What I want to say is that we might regret that we had damaged our bodies in a permanent way.
If you’re Christian, please read this.
In Christianity, suicide itself is contraindicated due to the notion that one’s body must be preserved until the Last Judgement, but burning oneself is particularly frowned upon because it means that one’s body will be destroyed by fire and one will perish from this world (and not even receive the Last Judgement).Wikipedia (Japanese edition)
So I think we must go to church and explain (if, I hope not to have it though) that we have suicidal thoughts, and there IS the help.
There is help, but if it might be not effective, but there is one option that I suggest to everyone
There are hotlines. We can call ambulance if it’s urgent. We have many options that might be a help but we can’t see it if we’re in this dark tunnel.
I have one option for you if you’re in crisis. I suggest it to use your loved ones if they have this feeling too.
WE MUST WAIT FOR THIS MINUTES.
I don’t say that “suicide is a permanent solution for your temporary problem” because we can’t think that it might be temporary.
But suicide can’t be undone.
So, I think we can die also after 30 minutes if we want. I think, at least for me, this method worked well and my mind had changed at least only a little.
Please try it and tell me if it works or not. I hope you can get through this dark tunnel. Hugs.
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