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Three essential steps to success despite inferiority complex

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Humans are ambitious creatures. It is precise because you have the desire to improve that you are able to boldly take on new challenges and want to learn more and make it your own.

However, in today’s world with the development of the Internet, there are many opportunities to see people who shine brighter than you. Your post only got 30 likes, but an influencer with a great resume has 10,000 likes. When people see such things, they tend to naturally develop an inferiority complex. I’ve seen many people who think, “I’m just a worthless person who deserves only 30 likes,” and gets swallowed up in a vortex of endless craving for approval on SNS. rice field.

In this article, I will talk not only about the academic background complex (a Japanese word that means feeling inferior or humiliated towards someone who has a higher educational background than you), but also about feelings of inferiority in appearance, ability, and interpersonal communication. increase.

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1 Do your best

Even in exams, failing as a result of your best effort gives you a sense of exhilaration. However, failing the exam as a result of just playing around without studying much can easily lead to regret and self-blame, even though the result is the same “fail”. It’s a matter of whether you feel like you’re giving it all you’ve got.

So do your best and try to get what you want.

If you want to get a great academic record, study hard. No matter how poorly educated you are in a school, you have no choice but to make an effort to be the top there.
If you want to get a beautiful appearance, keep your skin clean, don’t neglect skin care, and if necessary, go to a dermatologist.
If you want to improve your interpersonal communication skills, get involved with as many people as possible.

2 Be satisfied with where you’ve arrived

Celebrate your efforts to get there and be happy there, even if the place you worked so hard for isn’t what you were aiming for.

That’s where you did your best. you did everything you had to do. You know best how much you bleed and cry to get there in the first step.

Even if the place was ridiculed by the world, you made an effort to stand there. Others haven’t taken the first step, so their self-esteem grows like a monstrous, blackened, and tainted self-esteem, and they’re just holding back from envying your success. It’s not your lack of effort.

3 Do your best wherever you are

No matter how wonderful the place you are in, if you are satisfied there, the flower that is you will eventually wither. This is because human beings are ambitious creatures that should be improved. Those who look forward and work hard to get to a good place have a higher chance of receiving a gift from the Goddess of Victory.

Of course, not all efforts are rewarded. It is a lie to say that hard work always pays off. The biggest proof is that all people are destined to die. Innocent people suffer and die, and sinful people dance on the corpses, which is what human society is all about. (See: Operation Imphal)

That’s why it’s imperative that you continue to work where you are in order to reach even higher places. It is important to be satisfied there, but being satisfied and aiming higher are compatible.

If you repeat steps 1 to 3 earnestly, the feeling of inferiority will be greatly reduced.

Every step is important. Doing so will naturally increase your chances of getting your ticket to success.

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